Hello I'm Slen

      I've been blessed or cursed 
with the most intense common sense
knowledge one can only imagine.
this gift was given to give, and selfishly at some point
I refuse to share because I refuse to give if I couldn't receive.
So here we are, After giving my gift I found a passion for it
and realized by giving I am getting; and by getting I'm able to give back.

Rather than giving you a long boring history to read
I'll just provide you with an ask and answer
(better known as) Q & A 

Question:  What qualifies you to give advise?
Answer:  I'm not giving advise without request.
I'm sure your friends ask for your advice
and I'm more sure your reply isn't ( I'm not a therapist )
you answer to the best of your knowledge.
My knowledge is just maybe perhaps more accurate than yours :)
Oh!  and yes I'm certified 

Question: What makes you think you're so right ?
Answer: The people I've helped in the past.
When everyone comes back with "you were right"  it gives me an indication I'm on the right path

Question: You give a lot of relationship break-up advice
whats going on with your love life?
Answer: Providing help to others 
is the love of my life however. Keep in mind we're more of a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear and your friend when/if you have no one/where to turn 

Question: How can I  trust my information will remain private?
I mean you haven't taken any vow to do so or have you?
Answer: Here's some reasons to trust me along with many more not mentioned 
1. I have no clue who you are
2. No records of any kind are being kept  
3. If you were to Skype or have any visual conversation
you can opt out of reveling your face simply by
covering your camera, I will always expose myself
4. If ask to sign a none nondisclosure
I'm more than willing and happy to do so

Question: How long have you done this?
Answer: I've provided my service for the public since 2008
personal family and friends has been taken advantage of my gift for years
Please continue to
Contact Page with any request

 Out with the old and in with the new
  GrownFolksCity.com
 is a place to visit for laughter, reality, reality check
  and yes we accept tears
 we mend broken hearts in a realistic way. We don't just listen to you weep get paid and go home.
           GrownFolksCity has a new way of helping you get over your grief when dealing with hard to get over break-ups and downs.
Everything these days are based on reality and so are we.
If you are grieving or have bad relations with a significant other; you've come to the right place.
 Slen and her staff are willing and ready to help you  through your pain.
 Please allow us to be your shoulder to cry on
 and provide you with tools you can use to help get over your difficult break-ups and hardship throughout your relationship.


 DO NOT HESITATE 
 The Rest of Your Life         Depends on it !!!

 Many questions you ask are what I call "ask and answer"
you're very aware of the answer to your question or, If you just listen to your question
the answer will reveal itself only if you're interested in acknowledging the truth.
 As we know many times the truth hurts.
It forces you to see yourself in a bad manner you wouldn't approve of
and then, There's the person that convinces themselves that they're always right; and the rest of the world is wrong.
Yes we all know this person.
But that person can see differently when receiving information custom to their acceptance level.
As the old saying goes
"It's not what you do, it's how you do
it"
And that's where my blessings of Understanding, Compassion and
Ability to listen learn and overwhelming passion of resolve kicks in.
if you choose never to speak with me
here's a couple of things that can help
1.Listen to complaints you're receiving from others
2.Make sure you're not the person wrong in the situation 
3.Recognize the problem you may have and its purpose
4.Make amends or change your patern as soon as possible
5.Accept your doing something wrong
6.Learn from yourself as well as others behavior
If you do not have a problem or not sure.
That's a perfefect time to contact me me your friend Slen.
Let's talk about it. Maybe you can help me with my problem ;)
We can help one another.